kid i dont know much about you

but i like you, cause youre true blue

GROUPS- haven of those, confused ?
often we are opaque and complex to ourselves, while others are so transparent to us. To place others in a group is to simplify them, to make tangible the lines we feel between ourselves and others. I hate it, really. Like highschool has this seemingly immaculate structure. We even group ourselves, but I believe this might be when we are at our weakest. Haven.

I dont think its possible to hurt others without hurting yourself

Why am I so intimidated by people in groups? What do they consist of? Insecurity, lost, complexity tied into this knot, this dense circle, this black hole that sucks up warmth to itself (untouchable, lonely!) inside this group. But look at the individual parts- you have humans, therefore you have love and beauty and vulnerability and warmth somewhere, and hurt and confusion and desires. Not so threatening. But once you become these individual units, you are no longer a group.

To reach out to other people brings the most pure joy, partially becuase it surprises me. People surprise me everyday

Uplift everybody and uplift yourself

Thats what my tea quote was. And I read it as once you uplift everybody, the latter part will come naturally. I hope this is how they meant it